On Mondays we get to go see Erwin. The girls and I get in the car and head to Olivia's gymnastics class. It gets out about 11:45 and we pick up some lunch and head to Poppy's place. Today we took him fried chicken from KFC. He absolutely loved it. Caroline has taken to laughing at Olivia. Olivia will laugh at her and she will laugh right back. Erwin got to witness this special event today. He smiled so big. It was great to see.
I am so glad he came to live in Utah. We usually get to see him 3 times a week. It is great for my kids. This morning, Olivia told me, "When I grow up like you, daddy will be like poppy and you will be like honey" (that's what she calls ari's mom). She wants daddy to be like poppy and I do too. I remember before I married Ari I looked at Erwin and saw what Ari might look like and be like when he was old. I knew I could live with that! Erwin is a good man. He is patient, always giving, loving, and generous.
My dad isn't around anymore. He hasn't been in my life for 12 years. Before Erwin, I didn't know what it was like having a dad as an adult. Erwin is a man I love to talk to. He always listens to me. He cares about me and my kids. I know he loves me. I consider Erwin my father and he tells people that I am his daughter.
When I got Ari, I never knew I would also be gaining a father.
My girl is growing up
17 years ago